For lots of people, because of some past traumatic or bad previous experience, became sex something scary, difficult, hard work or kind of performance to achieve verification, a way how to get connection and often right way to feel normal. But truly that is not much to enjoy and feel. There is shame about not doing it, not having sex, not being sexy, and good enough for others. Shame of not feeling normal, because everybody else having great sex life, just not me, so I am not having normal life. Suppression and frustration that often slowly appears in everyday life. Some of us slowly learn to ignore it and play down our sexual part. To be way too busy with many other things.
I am the last person to judge, because I know that place, I was there myself before and I also know where I am now, loving my life, my body and enjoying ways to manifest my truth through what I can feel and enjoy. I am here to help those who are feeling frustrated and unhappy, feeling they have no power in their life and they wish to change it, they are ready to start the journey of healing and exploring why they really are. Maybe somebody took it from them in the past, by abusing their pure sexual energy, manipulating them and breaking trust. Or even not being allowed to recognise their sexual self in their life, it simply did not exist when they grew up. It is hard to be sexual and happy when the world feels dangerous and unfriendly.
Please be aware, it is never too late to slowly come back home, into your body, to yourself and get back your power, joy of life.